Escaping Domestic Violence as a Pet Owner
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New York City’s first and only co-living shelter for people and pets
When domestic violence victims decide to leave abusive situations, they face many difficult choices. For victims with pets, it can be even more agonizing if there are no options for pets.
Do they flee with their children and leave their pet behind? Do they place their pet with a rescue organization and hope for the best? Do they stay and try to keep their family intact despite abuse? Or is there a better way?
Very few shelters accept domestic violence victims with pets. That’s why the PALS (People and Animals Living Safely) program can mean the difference between staying in an abusive situation and finding safety for the entire family. PALS removes barriers to entry by providing accommodations for co-living with pets of any species.
Did You Know?
68%
of families have a pet
48%
of victims stay because they don’t want to leave their pet behind.
3%
of DV shelters provide co-sheltering for survivors and their pets.
Here at URI:
178
families and 249 pets have been sheltered to date.
172
pet-ready apartments with 472 beds available.
Pets are family members, too
The human-animal bond is important to well-being, especially in times of distress. For victims, their pet may be their only source of comfort and support. But abuse affects more than people: pets experience domestic violence in ways similar to people. In many cases, pets are used as leverage to further threaten, harm or control victims. In some cases, pets may try to intervene, leading them to become a direct target of an abuser.
We allow the whole family to heal together
PALS offers pet-ready apartments and services across New York City in three boroughs that allow families and pets to live and heal together in the same secure space. Our aim is to break the cycle of violence and foster independence and hope.
Victims are provided a full range of wellness services:
- Safety
- Case Management
- Counseling
- Specialized pet care
- Veterinarians and animal behavioral specialists
- Economic empowerment
- Childcare services
- Educational enhancement
- Nutrition
- Academic support for adults and kids
- Financial literacy
Life in the PALS Program
Introduced in 2019, PALS Place is the first domestic violence shelter in the nation in which every apartment unit has been designed to shelter pets alongside their families in the same safe, secure space.
Safety Tips for Pets
Know the signs and develop a safety plan
Victims of domestic violence are often subjected to multiple types of abuse over significant periods of time which is designed to erode self-esteem and maintain power and control over them. For some, it can take several attempts to leave. Whether you are ready or able to escape an abusive situation, you may find it useful to develop a safety plan for yourself and your entire family - including any children and pets. As you develop your plan, consider the following safety tips:
Supplies. Set aside supplies, pack an emergency bag and keep it hidden, but easily accessible. Make sure to include necessary food, medication, and records for pets.
Animal ownership documents. Accumulate registration records, vet records, a microchip, and/or a current photo to prove ownership of your pets in a safe place.
Friends and family. Find a friend or family member to help care for your pet in case of a sudden emergency. They are an important part of your overall pet-care plan.
Explore options. Look into resources in your community for assistance with your pets. Look for a local co-sheltering program or animal welfare organization that can provide services. The National Domestic Violence Hotline has a list of resources here.
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The Margaret Whitton Charitable Trust
Bruce G. Geary Foundation
A Kinder World Foundation
Norma Green Foundation
89 Cats
70 Dogs
10 Turtles
1 Rabbit
4 Fish
To Date We’ve Sheltered
4 Birds
2 Guinea Pigs
2 Hamsters
1 Bearded Dragons
In Their Own Words
Being in the PALS program, I was given the tools and the time needed. If you just go from one desperate situation to the next desperate situation you keep repeating the cycle, and here I was given a safe space.
PALS resident